This is pretty much spot on.
I do try to fix things in general, least I want to, like repair the damage humankind has done to the earth and it's nonhuman inhabitants, instill unconditional compassion and thoughtfulness, teach all to think for themselves and not to blindly follow without question or knowing all sides. Stuff like that.
Realize our connection to everything, our oneness with the universe but also our individuality, everyone has something to contribute.
And if you must judge, do so the person themselves by their actions and behavior towards others, which should have nothing to do with their race, gender, life choices, religion/beliefs, etc.
It upsets me when I can't help in any major way. I haven't any power, nor am I influential.
I like showing little daily creative gestures. little unexpected surprises, special meals, massages, some fun costumes and role play. Like have him come home to a costumed themed meal just for them, or pitch a tent in the back yard and spend the night telling scary stories, toasting marshmallows and looking at the stars together.
Giving small thoughtful gifts, homemade or purchased.
I would enjoy doing these things as much as I'd hope he would.
I think it is much more romantic than doing huge, costly things just for show.
And yes, letting him put his toothbrush next to mine is a big deal, accepting another's, ugh, germs.
What goes on under the sheets should be just as creative.
Keep it exciting and fresh.
The overthinking part is a problem with me. I want to always know the reasons for everything, if it has purpose. The whys and wherefores. I know I overdo it.
I know sometimes a cigar is just a cigar...but why?
I want to know everything.
It sums me up quite well.
I do try to fix things in general, least I want to, like repair the damage humankind has done to the earth and it's nonhuman inhabitants, instill unconditional compassion and thoughtfulness, teach all to think for themselves and not to blindly follow without question or knowing all sides. Stuff like that.
Realize our connection to everything, our oneness with the universe but also our individuality, everyone has something to contribute.
And if you must judge, do so the person themselves by their actions and behavior towards others, which should have nothing to do with their race, gender, life choices, religion/beliefs, etc.
It upsets me when I can't help in any major way. I haven't any power, nor am I influential.
I like showing little daily creative gestures. little unexpected surprises, special meals, massages, some fun costumes and role play. Like have him come home to a costumed themed meal just for them, or pitch a tent in the back yard and spend the night telling scary stories, toasting marshmallows and looking at the stars together.
Giving small thoughtful gifts, homemade or purchased.
I would enjoy doing these things as much as I'd hope he would.
I think it is much more romantic than doing huge, costly things just for show.
And yes, letting him put his toothbrush next to mine is a big deal, accepting another's, ugh, germs.
What goes on under the sheets should be just as creative.
Keep it exciting and fresh.
The overthinking part is a problem with me. I want to always know the reasons for everything, if it has purpose. The whys and wherefores. I know I overdo it.
I know sometimes a cigar is just a cigar...but why?
I want to know everything.
It sums me up quite well.