Why is it that some can be so mean, cruel, malicious and vindictive? And not just physically. Some like to psychologically do so to others. Even to the point of going out of their way, which is, imo, sick. I just don’t get it. Even when nothing was done to them to intentionally provoke it.
When hurt, I do not seek revenge (although I will voice my opinion sometimes, most times, though, I just cry and wallow in self pity then when finished wallowing try to find a reason for why I felt hurt and why the hurt was done/inflicted. Like did I deserve it.)
I’m willing to forgive just about anything, and do so perhaps much more than I should, but I grow tired of making excuses for other’s actions. I have enough trouble making ones for my own.
Thumper’s Dad was wise in saying ‘if you can’t say (or do) something nice, don’t say (do) nothing at all.’